" everyone knows this is the typical Chinese family way. Unless the child is born to a family that is well off, then the child is expected to take care of the parents
It's nothing strange, considering that there is no social care…"
"Thank you. If I do forgive her, there's the problem about the child. Should I also accept the child? I feel that I can't, I might end up getting reminded every time I look at the kid and I know it would be a lifetime torture for me. If I…"
"@Penguin. Survival instincts dictate that you should do that but with emotional ties not all people are strong willed and don't think logically.
I worked with a colleague from HK who co-signed a loan with a finance company (loan shark) for an…"
"I would not allow my father to speak to me that way and he wouldn't because we have mutual love and respect for each other.
That is the point. Back home, It does not matter how families are poor or rich. It does not matter if family…"
"@Cynic. You're right but in your post, you called it GREED! As you said it depends on the family circumstances. Say for instance if you are landowner in SZ and own property where you are getting substantial rent, chances are you are going to…"