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My friend is attracted to younger girls. He is 37 and he should be dating someone of his age. yet, he like to pick up on girls. 18-21. why do you think that is? Just wondering what you all think about this? nothing dirty, he just like younger bodies for fun and such. I think it may have to do with our state of mind? like some of us feel younger than we really are? discuss!!!

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There are ass kissers (brown nosers) everywhere, in the dating scene, the office and it's all about power, money etc. Some people are born ass kissers, some people can't do it no matter what. Usually there aren't too many (full time) ass kissers compared to non ass kissers, maybe one out of five or so. Everybody kisses a little ass in their life actually, even when dating with the same age. You know: if a foreigner comes to the US he/she is more interesting than a US person because he/she is different. Not only here, believe me. They dress different, have different things to talk about, smell different, etc etc. (it's not always about money). Walk in Shekou and not too many care about a foreigner, it's totally normal. Go somewhere else and it's very different....
Hi to everyone ...

I will talk directly, no need to turn around. Better say true feelings about it

Men are only interesting on sex (you can see on this site, many are here to date girls)
Women (or young girls) are only interested on money
One day, a friend (girl) of me said : "if it is good chinese girl, they wont go out with foreigners because they should be afraid (that they are playboys, they will one day leave china, ...).
I wont totally agree on this words, but in some way, it is not wrong

From my experience, a lot of girls are looking for rich men and rich men only looking for young beauty

Is there love in that ?
Yes, if you consider girls love money and men love "fresh meat" (sorry for that)

Foreigners in China ... as some people said, they think they are kings here as they have good salary (but not so great in there country).
Honestly, they are not handsome at all, but they feel so as they have young pretty girl next to them

This is the new rule in China : if you have money, you can have everything
What is love in all of it ? Depends what you consider as love ...
I totally agree with you on this subject, most young chinese girls are only love money, love brand stuff, eat rich food, live in a good condition, and they dont care that if the foreigner is young or old, rich or poor, they just want to satisfy themselves.As i know that the rich foreigner dont need/want to work in other poorer countries.
Not just in China, believe me. In other countries young people got so much credit card debt, it's not even funny. I guess here the older guys are the "credit cards" hehe. Well there definitely is a good business reason to be in fast developing countries. A rich guy from abroad brings his money and invests where it's still cheap while the economy is growing fast, makes total sense. In fact one of the problems here now is too much investment from outside.
Phew, thank god I am not like those other foreigners.

But when you talk about young girls, Chinese woman think when they get to 25 it is OLD. mmmm.

Give me an oldy anytime......

Fuinny, you wrote I quote:
This is the new rule in China : if you have money, you can have everything

Answer: That counts no matter where you live in the World.

Money does not buy LOVE.
Damn, but it can buy you almost everything else.
First, guys like pretty and beautiful face and body. And it let him feel passion and power.
Actually, men want to get everything. He want pretty face and body, and mature mind.

On the other hand, guys like take a young girl friend to show up in front of his friend. One of my friend, he is Italian, 35 year old. When I was in Toronto, he always liked to introduce me to his friends, and it looks like I'm his girl friend. Actually, we're not that close.

And sometimes, the older man, I mean the age older than you, doesn't mean he really older than young girl. Sometimes, my friends like me to give them advice. When we're getting closer, I always asked him, are you sure you're 35, not 15. He always did some stupid things. He insist on he just did that in front of me.
I think one factor is that younger guys are (especially today) in a very compettive environment and very stressed, whereas the older guy is cruising on his experience, probably a manager and much more relaxed (because he learned how to deal with all the stress, same old, same old). So we're kinda the cool, friendly, life experienced and easy going dudes who (sometimes) go to bed early and are not as crazy and wild as the young guys anymore. This formula seems to work somehow, not just here. If you're halfway decent looking (still) and fun to hang out with then why not right? It's not always only about money (I hope) but security does play a big role.
ok, when I "graduated" from high school I heard this rumor of one of my classmates moving in with a rich older lady in France, who was supposed to own a castle. Well older (like 40's) ladies in France can be really good looking and be very attractive and you know: it didn't really leave much of an impression on me at the time other than wow: he moved to France, what is he doing now? Going to school or what? I had no idea or other thoughts about this whole story. I totally forgot about this until I met this discussion group. Aaahhh: this classmate was very smart. He found a rich (older) woman and he never had to work again. Wow: what a foresight, so mature, at 18, incredible! But wait a minute: I never heard from the guy again. Is he a Count or a Duke now? Did he leave, get bored out of his mind (I would be probably in a strange country locked up in a castle), go back to school? I have no freaking clue, I can only guess. I probably should go back to my high school reunion to find out... I am really curious now!
boys at 16-26 like to be with older women...bcoz older women are mature and thoughtful..

However, the most important is that the older women behave better in bed...hee hee
hi, everyone..

well..im 25..

to my opinion.. in shenzhen or other big city, the men below 30 would like to play around only ... It is hard to make them settle down... They hardly be serious on relationship. They could pick up anyone easily and give up the relationship at their pleasure...
Not just in Shenzhen, also in the US and EU. Times are changing .......

Boyz will be boyz (bad boyz)
I think there is nothing wrong abt that. Just that we were brought up to think that there is something weird. What matters most is friendship. The other things are mutually agreeable between the guy & the gal.

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