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over the last 20 years , i have seen a whole lot of mens who found their girl friends, some got married some didnt, for some it worked wonderfully, for others it was a daily struggle.

for who choose not to, there is a feeling there is no one as good as her. for those who got married and separated, a feeling of guilt, and why me....

for a few others a realization i didn't take the right decision.  

where it stops....... What next.... what do i do now. is marriage actually as simple as falling in love with some one.. or rather falling in love itself is so easy....

is really there something like lived happily ever after.

Marriage is a responsibility.... a fact that changes your life the way nothing else changes and there are consequences one must be responsible for....

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Love is BS. Once a guy falls in love, he becomes needy and predictable and no longer appears valuable in the woman's eyes. The trick to keep her attached to you is to stop being naive and thinking about love.

Be a challenge to her and let her do the chasing, girls love that, trust me! - This applies to all 3 (friends with benefits, girlfriends and wives)

do you think you married the wrong person?

how many times does this thought comes to you say in a week or in a month.... OH GOD how can you be so.............? Why the hell i need to go through again and again.........

this all end up in one question sooner or later...........

in the west they are very quick to re correct themselves............ 2 marriages 3 divorce, or may be more.. God knows how do they manage it but they do..... Lucky for us we haven't reached that stage yet.....

Love is real, real is love
Love is feeling, feeling love
Love is wanting to be loved
Love is touch, touch is love
Love is reaching, reaching love
Love is asking to be loved

Love is you
You and me
Love is knowing
We can be

Love is free, free is love
Love is living, living love
Love is needing to be loved

by John Lennon

LOVE ---- Marriage are related but not same , not even similar....... isnt it

One realizes it after getting married........ isnt it

In my country love starts after marriage..... so even if you are not in love it doesn't matter, as u will never know what love is ? and unluckly if you come  to know correction is so time consuming and expensive that you will rather live through with what you have rather then jump the boat......

Marriage is a contract that can be undone: if you think you married the wrong one, get a divorce and start again. 

pretty expensive one my dear....

In the case not if you have a child, give him or her some time & space just when you think you married the wrong person and it is done, no one is as good or as bad of you might think.

Then you are right here. Start to bitch about others, shout around that you are happily married , dont cheat and so on...while hiting on girls on the site. Release your stress by being vulgar, namecalling, pointless arguments, whining and doubting about women's taste in men.
Don't thank me if it helps you. Cheers!

you have some anger issues dont you?

i dont think i am angry. but sure feel the frustration with what see around and most importantly when every thing is grey , nothing that you separate as black and white.

sorry I did not mean you man I meant Loli Lola,the comment was not for you man.



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