Fall in love a guy ,how to do ?
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i'm met a guy in KTV,he is my friend's friend .
and fell in love with each other at first glance
we make love in the second time whe we met ,and promise to be his girl friend
my friend told me is not good for emotional development is too rapid.
and i found ,he thinkin me when he need ,
any other time he didn't give me any message or call.
i want to send a message to him,
but my friend told me not to do that .
waiting him to find me .
i don't know how to do now ? and feel in trouble!!
anyone can help me ??
and fell in love with each other at first glance
we make love in the second time whe we met ,and promise to be his girl friend
my friend told me is not good for emotional development is too rapid.
and i found ,he thinkin me when he need ,
any other time he didn't give me any message or call.
i want to send a message to him,
but my friend told me not to do that .
waiting him to find me .
i don't know how to do now ? and feel in trouble!!
anyone can help me ??
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Permalink Reply by David Ho on -
taahahahah - it's ok I can pick up the peices when your done - Clean up Fall in love discussion!
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Permalink Reply by cornetto on -
tks,kaminari
and now i hope to know :
keep relationship with that guy ,or refuse to see him agaim?
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Permalink Reply by mirko on -
...don't believe any promises men make while they are f***king....
can you give an example?
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Permalink Reply by cornetto on
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hi ,liu ya
i can't agree all what u say!
i don't konw why i sex with him at that time ,
iI've never been the one to open up.
then i think the same like u ,
i not really fall in love ,
and decide to take it out in my brain
but i can't do that !!!
my brain loading all about him
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Permalink Reply by David Ho on
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Here's what I'll say conetto, what do you want? Secondly, if you really want to learn something - after you've thoroughly convinced yourself that your an loveable person and have ample confidence in yourself - understand that love is not just a feeling it is what you do. It is actions and decisions made in consideration of one another. Intense feelings won't be around forever and after the emotional infactuation of the first several years in any good relationship the fire alone will not sustain you. Love at first site isn't impossible but its damn f*cking near it. Looking for love in a relationship where you slept with a guy on the 2nd date is like stabbing someone in the chest blindfolded and hoping it won't hit any vital organs, sure you might get likely but your much more likely to kill the guy.
Anyway won't go into a whole rant about it. If he's not calling you "just because" or "for no reason" often he probably is just using you, its very difficult for men to respect a woman (the way he needs to if he means to love her) if he can get what he wants from her so easily. Make them fight for it girl!!! if your looking for love that is ;-)
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Permalink Reply by chrissy on -
at least a real love you won't feel been short changed ...it's ok to lust ....
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Permalink Reply by Brandy on -
hi david.
thanks for adding me in your list.
you are totally right. LOVE IS NOT A FEELING. i just had a debate with the whole company staff because i was the only one who agrees that LOVE is not a feeling. I have been telling everyone about this since I was in the university. And that 99% of the people in the world are wrong to think love is a feeling.
If it were, then it wont be wrong to love every sexy girl that tickles my heart.
But seriously, FEELINGS are fickle-minded. LOVE is not.
And because almost everyone in the world thinks love is a feeling, this is the main reason why divorce is getting more and more popular.
NOTE: In my country, divorce is not allowed. Divorce is illegal. Because our government recognizes that divorce is the same as running away from the problem. It is exactly the same as committing suicide.
People who cannot face their problems would rather die. Same in marriage, couples would rather get a divorce than face their problems and solve them head on.
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