man !!!it is stupid .do not try too hard , just tell straightly ,wait for the response .usually it is a no, already moved on , been there .why bring the old scar and reveal the blood again .it is a wise idea never contact an ex. even you guys have witnessed so many things of eachother . so what ?? it does not matter what it is for today .
yeah, its a wise idea to not contact your ex coz i was invited by my ex to see him in starbucks last new year and after that it makes me sick and cry when i went home. i dont know why..maybe i still have feelings but difficult to show it