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Our standards

Started by Mademoiselle YayYayYay!. Last reply by Tina Chen Feb 22, 2011. 13 Replies

What should be our standards to qualify as a non slut?No sex at all?No sex on sundays?No sex for more than a year?Sex with the light off?Sex everyday but with the same person? (including yourself if…Continue

you are invited for a foursome/couple sex, what would you...

Started by Ning. Last reply by Ning Sep 19, 2010. 35 Replies

i understand culture difference but still i cannot belive it makes the answer so differently. for the chinese male / female friend i asked, they will never have 3some or 4some with their…Continue

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Non slutty activities, as a subsitute for sex

Started by Mademoiselle YayYayYay!. Last reply by Ning Aug 17, 2010. 52 Replies

Anyone who knows how to spend a good non slutty evening, please share your ideas here!

Slut it up!

Started by Mademoiselle YayYayYay!. Last reply by Ning Jul 17, 2010. 9 Replies

Ok, We need advices from the sluts overthere...How to slut our world?Continue

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Comment by Mademoiselle YayYayYay! on March 15, 2011 at 5:49pm
Welcome, Scarf Girl!
Comment by Mademoiselle YayYayYay! on October 2, 2010 at 1:53am
Hi Elizabeth.

There is no real purpose, I personally will not organize anything, because I have absolutely no time, but feel free to give ideas for people to join non-slutty events!
Comment by Alexandra on October 1, 2010 at 11:46pm
Hi, everybody. I am new here. Actually, i am a little bit confused. what's the group for? Sounds interesting though. Do we have any regular not slutty event ?
Comment by 我是维奇 on September 20, 2010 at 1:27pm
Well, that's exactly what I said: pointing out their wrong tactics to them isn't going to help.

Perhaps it's that sort of twisted pleasure they are getting from it? You know sometimes people walk into the same shit over and over again almost deliberately, because what they truly enjoy is the 'pain' and the 'suffering' that follows! :-P Although on the surface they may be telling you how they 'hate' the whole thing and how 'unlucky' they are!
Comment by Jared (J Nimbus) on September 20, 2010 at 1:05pm
so true - but - try telling them that their photos are not appropiate... they will flip out - and loose the plot completely... as if you are not trying to help them find the right guy....
its like they are pre programmed to repeatedly commit the same mistake over and over... as if deep down in side they want to be dumped buy slutty men - so they can continue to blame "them" instead of risk a real relationship (and the risk of REALLY getting hurt again)

I saw this exact same behaviour from drug and alcohol addicts when i was a counselor. So whats the guts, i wonder???
Comment by 我是维奇 on September 20, 2010 at 12:54pm
@Jared: I was just taking the pisss, mate! I know very well what you are referring to.

To be honest, it beats me too. Perhaps I've got a bit too much of masculine nature but I can never understand this 'back to front' behaviour (including saying "No", when meaning "Yes" and vice versa).

I can only surmise that such girls are so irrevocably naive, that whatever we do or say to them is not going to help them. What made them this way? Their upbringing and cultural environment, I think.
Comment by Jared (J Nimbus) on September 20, 2010 at 12:40pm
@Border Hopper - i made no reference to you at all.

i was merely making reference to the common occurance of women getting things back to front.

For example... my (not slutty) friend mischelle likes to meet men on-line..... she is a nice girl looking for a nice guy. (yeah i know i know, no need to tell me!)

However - her photos are of a very sexual and provocative nature.... as are many other of the ladies profiles on this particular site.

For SOME STRANGE reason... unknown to half the female population on eatth... her photos keep attracting guys who just want a easy screw, with no relationship strings. And she is yet to meet a NICE GUY.

Common - i see this every week, and hear about all the time from comlpaining women. Why do some women not get this??? men do not read the nice words in your profile... they just look at the pictures. duh!

Any ideas ladies here?? (who are obviously NOT slutty either).. do you not agree this is happening?
Comment by 我是维奇 on September 20, 2010 at 12:16pm
Ah, you mean you didn't go to the supermarket IN France! Sorry, I was being thick :-P Should have got it earlier....Are you okay now?
Comment by Mademoiselle YayYayYay! on September 20, 2010 at 12:09pm
BH:I was planning on bringing some, but I was so sick on the last day I stayed in...
Comment by 我是维奇 on September 20, 2010 at 11:58am
@Nobody and Jared: so you dare to claim that my profile picture looks SLUTTY? You sluts! :-P >:-(
 

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