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Heather Cai
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Questions from giving birth to a baby
Started this discussion. Last reply by 蛇口Jon Apr 16. 25 Replies 0 Likes
As i never gave birth to a baby , here comes some ideas I've been wondering :1. As mama to be, u must have no choice being DOWN naked to give the birth in front of several nurses and doctors even…Continue
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Does it make sense ? :D
Started this discussion. Last reply by Roger Apr 16. 36 Replies 0 Likes
Heard a story about a taxi driver(D) and a girl(G) who just arrived in SZ at the first time:D: You are coming alone for a job after graduation. Do you have a bf in SZ?G: No.D: It's very expensive to…Continue
Final KTV in Futian
Started this discussion. Last reply by Amanda Lee Mar 25. 8 Replies 0 Likes
We've been planning for KTV long before. Cuz of her big promise i hardly believe that she would not join any bar within 2 years. So KTV.A french friend sang Whistle sound like Yellow Whistleblower…Continue
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Shithole? Unless u are “Shit!”
Started this discussion. Last reply by 蛇口Jon Mar 24. 51 Replies 1 Like
What make it a shithole? Its your eyes and feelings from the inside of U. These month, shithole could be anywhere cos anything is like “Shit!” in your eyes. After you gained a bit achievement by…Continue
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"BTW: What's in the pic that I can't see? As I only can see it's YELLOW. ;-P"
Robert commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"@Zen. Nicely put.
@Cynic. I don't think the poor people in this case think at all when the have children. Most are too fucking lazy to wear a condom after a night on too much bai jiu."
Zen In FRED's Nutsack commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"@ Cynic - I see it in a bit different way.
For all I know about Chinese families, as much as they can be fucked up beyond our understanding sometimes, parents usually DO take care of their kids and not just when they are young. It's a…"
Cynic The Troll commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"@Robert I don't know what you call it, but it's almost like they have children as more of an investment plan rather than having children out of love. The B in L is a loser, but the wife is her sister and normally siblings look after…"
"Another fuckwit in Shenzhen trying to be "somebody" without any skills.
"Somebody could be nobody.";-)"
Zen In FRED's Nutsack commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between" everyone knows this is the typical Chinese family way. Unless the child is born to a family that is well off, then the child is expected to take care of the parents
It's nothing strange, considering that there is no social care…"
Robert commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"@Penguin. Survival instincts dictate that you should do that but with emotional ties not all people are strong willed and don't think logically.
I worked with a colleague from HK who co-signed a loan with a finance company (loan shark) for an…"
Coffee Break commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"I would not allow my father to speak to me that way and he wouldn't because we have mutual love and respect for each other.
That is the point. Back home, It does not matter how families are poor or rich. It does not matter if family…"
Robert commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"@Cynic. You're right but in your post, you called it GREED! As you said it depends on the family circumstances. Say for instance if you are landowner in SZ and own property where you are getting substantial rent, chances are you are going to…"
Cynic The Troll commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"@Robert, come on man, everyone knows this is the typical Chinese family way. Unless the child is born to a family that is well off, then the child is expected to take care of the parents. Extremely huge burden if the child is a female,…"
Robert commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"Actually the footballer's story is typical of what happens anywhere where someone gets a windfall, all the "friends and family" appear out of nowhere."
Robert commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"And in the Yahoo article, it wasn't the footballer being a douche, it was his family."
Robert commented on Heather Cai's blog post In Between"@Cynic. How do you know this is TYPICAL of Chinese? There are enough instances in just sports to say this is TYPICAL in the US or aren't they Americans? You are right about the gambling addict,they should be told to.fuck off. But you having…"
"@Cynic The Troll--There is nothing greedy in my family. You might just read the words from my father's phoncall. If you read all carefully, I believe you would say something different. ;-)
@ Robert--Thanks for sharing those stories I…"
"@ Half moon&Miss X--Thanks so much for the advice. I have talked about a divorce with her long time ago. But it's her decision to marry him and she still loves him with 2 sons. Once she made up her mind, she would just stick to it. My…"
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- Relationship Status:
- Single
- Hometown/Country:
- Fujian
- Where are you now?
- Shenzhen
- District (in Shenzhen):
- Futian
- Job:
- International Sales
- I'm looking for...
- Friends, Networking, Business Partners, Language Exchange
- About Me:
- Looking for someone serious--Looking for "green " life in a Big City through Shenzhen Stuff by chance maybe.--Aug.11,2012 (my birthday to join on SZS) .
Building a door to a Cabin In The Wood and opening a window to The Secret In Their Eyes.---Oct.27,2012.
Leaving Bao'an on Nov.21,2012 and back to Bao'an for my beloved Aloe with my good friend on Nov.23,2012. Then moving to Futian finally and completely on Nov.24,2012. So moving and working at the same time as a rockstar beginner...
(Had a "great" time with Prince "R"on Nov.20th,2012.Started the new job on Nov.22nd,2012. Everything was going well...)
When to enjoy "Maritnie time?"???---2012.11.27
Confused by "EXCUSE"---Dec.13,2012.
Finished and started off,pick up pieces and turn back into complete. --Dec29,2012.
Smiles at the bygones, keep eyes on the moment,choose the right direction you are going.--Stay green and go red, set yourself free like a baby born. A silent break on SZS.---Jan.22,2013.
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In Between
Posted on May 18, 2013 at 1:00pm 21 Comments 0 Likes
It’s sad that I never could communicate well with my family either in Putonghua or in our local language, neither on phone nor in person. My parents could not speak any Mandarin till working in Shenzhen while I can’t speak our dialect well even some simple sentences since left hometown in 15 and I seldom spoke anytime anyway. So I have to speak half Mandarin and half dialect when I visit my parents in Bao’an.…
ContinueJuice Baby
Posted on April 20, 2013 at 11:13pm 1 Comment 0 Likes
First time came here, felt like primary classroom without strict Chinese teacher.
Second time sitting here, listened to the music while blogging , felt like a chat room for teenagers.
Notice the pics on the wall , felt like Children's Day.
Take a pic of a photo hanging on the wall , felt like a photo gallery even though it's the only one.
Others speak German while some English and the rest Chinese that I can't hear.
Some faces I can… Continue
Second time sitting here, listened to the music while blogging , felt like a chat room for teenagers.
Notice the pics on the wall , felt like Children's Day.
Take a pic of a photo hanging on the wall , felt like a photo gallery even though it's the only one.
Others speak German while some English and the rest Chinese that I can't hear.
Some faces I can… Continue
Fists (Self-defection)
Posted on April 20, 2013 at 10:50pm 0 Comments 0 Likes
Forgot that still got two fists there.
What are they for?
One nose can smell the death.
Two ears can hear the pray from a poor church.
What else ?
One mouth doesn't like talking much.
One tongue got no feeling for various kisses.
How to do?
Look at the mirror , messy hair covers the eyes.
Stare at the eyes, confusion or Repulsion?
Twist the neck, make sounds like… Continue
What are they for?
One nose can smell the death.
Two ears can hear the pray from a poor church.
What else ?
One mouth doesn't like talking much.
One tongue got no feeling for various kisses.
How to do?
Look at the mirror , messy hair covers the eyes.
Stare at the eyes, confusion or Repulsion?
Twist the neck, make sounds like… Continue
Inspiration
Posted on April 20, 2013 at 6:50pm 2 Comments 0 Likes
Fuckin signal at home , noisy air at Starbucks and internet sucks at 92 Coffee Club.
Finally , time for Inspiration.
More than three times posted failed, which made me like the Original one best.
Poor memory made it three different ones but the last one survived,speechless.
The more times you have tried , the harder you got better ideas.
An inspiration is like the flash light.
If you ccan't catch the right light, it will… Continue
Finally , time for Inspiration.
More than three times posted failed, which made me like the Original one best.
Poor memory made it three different ones but the last one survived,speechless.
The more times you have tried , the harder you got better ideas.
An inspiration is like the flash light.
If you ccan't catch the right light, it will… Continue
Comment Wall (28 comments)
- At 8:57am on March 21, 2013,
Frank Fox said… Good idea, but getting a work visa would mean staying in China. And that is a totally different decision than travelling around on a tourist visa. I will decide that in a few weeks from now.
- At 9:06am on February 18, 2013,
Mike46 said…
He's right Heather - you really should get out more often.
- At 2:31am on February 18, 2013,
Inspector Bill said… Real world. That's all you need ! not virtual one ! I am not insulting you ! Just making you to realize, how much time you waste on this website.
- At 10:53pm on February 12, 2013,
Balazs Hegyi said… Dear Heather!
I just sent an invitation, hope we can get contact. I would like to talk about job, I work in sales as well and my company wants me to go to china later. So if you don't mind please accept my invitation :)
Thank you!
- At 2:49pm on January 7, 2013,
雅利安猛兽 said… Hey photoshopped photo girl... glad you enjoyed feeling my breast and 'cupping me' outside La Casa ;-)
- At 1:23am on January 5, 2013,
GrandPa said… Hi Heather, I hope all is well with you and you are having a nice start to the new year. I am currently in the US but will return in a few weeks. Hopefully Chris and I can meet up with you sometime and share a beer, a laugh and a good story! Be Happy Everyday!
- At 1:06am on January 1, 2013,
Sergei S. said… 
- At 12:43am on December 31, 2012,
ssicy said… you Are unique heather! have a blessed 2013! cheers.
- At 8:27am on December 29, 2012,
Mael said… What does YCGs mean?
- At 3:06pm on December 25, 2012,
Katherine said…
You're welcome Heather, thank you for your support!
Wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year :)
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