I told you that you would probably get trolled and you did. Then I guess you deleted your "About Me" and quit looking here. It's a pity but not a surprise.
I'm not totally sure if you had one troll or two. Ben has been through a whole list of names [Ben the Birdman, Ben, Christina, John of Arc, Chris, Ben II, Jason and now Ben III] When the Admin delete one account he just creates another. It's possible that he is Tim too.
You can set your watch by when that old freak starts the "innocuous welcome speech" after a person with a mildly suggestive photo - female, single, has legs or cleavage - joins up. And this time he was "impressed".
Start the countdown for - you should come and meet some good people at kingway - line. Make sure you pour your own drinks.
Actually I was impressed that you had any "About Me" at all - most people do not, so I try and encourage those that do. I think I understood what you meant as I've met quite a few people who have started off by saying "I want to change my life". So come and make some noise and get noticed. You will get trolled I expect, and if it's nice trolling give it back.If it's nasty there is a "Report an Issue" button at the bottom of the page.