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Started this discussion. Last reply by JIMMY YU Dec 28, 2011. 189 Replies

We have our resident blogger on the evils of racism, but I’m not going to put that much effort into it, so just a Discussion.   For me to enter a club in Worcester means that I get stared at, at…Continue

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Don't Feed the Trolls

Started this discussion. Last reply by Cynic May 19. 152 Replies

Someone I respect once described SZStuff as "the most troll-friendly site he'd ever been on".I have had a pleasant few days with the forum behaving more like a forum.  Some interesting Discussions…Continue

Where is your life in Shenzhen going?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Coffee Break Mar 3, 2010. 142 Replies

For me I have had the career and family – both still continuing – so my life doesn’t really need to “go” anywhere.  I have enough money to last the rest of my life and my main interests are in seeing…Continue

Cute guy or sexy guy,which do you prefer?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Mike46 Jan 3, 2011. 134 Replies

Important question,As the title.........PS Any girl who manages to include me in either category gets a free dinner and a big kiss.PPS Thanks to Bunny for giving me the plagiaristic idea.Continue

You can't fool all the people all the time - but it's fun trying

Started this discussion. Last reply by Ning Oct 17, 2009. 125 Replies

I notice that there are none of our standard discussions showing right now so let's talk about playboys again - ready Kami? One in particular - that Mike61 guy.In my days as a moderator [retired for…Continue

Girls - Do you prefer to date single or married guys?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Mike46 Aug 12, 2009. 107 Replies

OK, if you're looking for marriage then that narrows the field down a bit, but what if you're looking to develop yourself and have a good time?Advantages of married guys:....Don't get ridiculous…Continue

Where would you hide your sex toys?

Started this discussion. Last reply by E.K Apr 25, 2012. 96 Replies

A friend of mine has a few sex toys and may have a male friend staying in her flat for a while - some of the time when she would be out at work.  I asked if he would approve of them and she said that…Continue

Tags: Competition for Kev's Discussion at Kami's Request

How do you decide where to live?

Started this discussion. Last reply by MissFortune Mar 26, 2011. 92 Replies

In particular, do you take into account the probabilities of natural disasters?  I’m not talking about the people who were born and grew up there, but we mobiles who choose where we live to some…Continue

What Will You Do with One Million RMB?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Hell en Sep 29, 2009. 88 Replies

You have been left a million in the will of a rich uncle, but there are conditions. You are only allowed two choices about how to spend it:1 Buy an apartment for 0.7million, a car for 0.2million and…Continue

Soulmate? Bullshit!

Started this discussion. Last reply by SD Apr 18, 2013. 87 Replies

I disagree.No man is an island entire of itselfI think that it is possible to find people who complement oneself so perfectly that soulmate makes a good description.  I think that I have found two…Continue


"It's not getting old that stops you doing things, it's stopping doing things that makes you get old."

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Mike46 replied to Halfsexyhalfcute Halley's discussion What is the point to have sex if women can't get orgasm?
"About 30% of women can regularly get an orgasm through straight penetrative sex. About another 40% can sometimes. If you use a position which allows you to use your fingers or an external vibrator while having sex, I'm told that feels a lot…"
Mike46 replied to Fuyongtanera's discussion Private health Insurance
"Fortunately, for HK Permanent Residents, STD treatment at the Jockey Club clinics is free, plus you get to meet some really interesting people."
Mike46 replied to Fuyongtanera's discussion Chinese kindergardens
"As noted on the other discussion, Mr Lin and his family are native Mandarin speakers and this may colour his opinion. The applicability to non-Chinese speakers may not be direct."
Mike46 replied to Fuyongtanera's discussion Private health Insurance
"Is this all from your brochure? Is the Peking Hospital with English speaking doctors the one near Lianhuashan? They must been away for my visits. As a Singaporean do you and your family speak Putonghua? If you will answer these questions I'll…"
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"Another one was luring people to buy drinks in bars, but she wasn't good at providing the follow-up services, so never made any money. She was making the bags in SZ at first, but after she was cohabiting with Caleb, so didn't have to make…"
Mike46 replied to Fuyongtanera's discussion Private health Insurance
"The commute from OCT to Fuyong shouldn't be that bad.  I've had much longer when I was younger, and you should get a seat on the metro as you'd be going against the stream.  You will either commute for work or the whole…"
Mike46 left a comment for jessica
"What happened to your first pic? We wouldn't regret what?"
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"I don't think that she ever held a job for more than a month or two.  Selling coffee machines was one, but she had to drink the stuff and hated it. I remember one involved spreadsheets and numbers were always a mystery to Eva.  In…"
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"She told me it was Chinese Literature, but I didn't know she could read."
Mike46 replied to Fuyongtanera's discussion Private health Insurance
"Fuyong is quite close to the Airport East Metro Station at the end of the Luobao line. You would find much better places to live around OCT with a 30 minute metro commute plus a short taxi trip. I suggest you look at these places before you commit…"
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"btw - do you know what her major was? If not have a guess."
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"Eva is a Tiger, so born in 86. They met online in 2009 and Caleb came to China in 2010 - about 25 then so a couple of years older than her. She was at home in Henan when he arrived so I looked after him for a couple of days with strict instructions…"
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"Eva is happy as a housewife - her dream job: Have 2 cats , one dog ! Kid next , maybe in 2 years She was fun and funny and is bloody lucky to have found Caleb. One of those brave, silly YCGs - like Jane (the ex-virgin) who is also heading for…"
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"Eva met a Californian guy online. After much chat he came to China and eventually married her. They live near Seattle with numerous pets. Jaris is in Beijing now."
Jul 18
Ben commented on Mike46's blog post be like a peach in a relationship
"Surprised to see no tomatoes We do not have high regards for tomatoes now! Hahahaha"
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Jul 18
Mike46 commented on Mike46's blog post be like a peach in a relationship
"All of you suggesting different fruit/vegetables should write your own blogs. Surprised to see no tomatoes here. @Ben - I prefer a girl to smell like a girl - not soap - or horror of horrors a few years back - a sweetcorn scented vaginal…"
Jul 18
Mike46 replied to Jay's discussion MSG (Monosodium Glutamate) a "Must have" ingredient in Chinese food
"It was a response to people who base facts on opinions, rather than the other way round. Intended generally, not specifically."
Jul 18
Mike46 replied to Ziji's discussion Stop making fun of YCGs
"The abbreviation YCG comes from this Discussion in 2009 and the term for people like me if OFG - see the group here. Originally YCG was not derogatory, but became so when used by a previous generation of trolls. Read the first couple of responses…"
Jul 18
Mike46 replied to Jay's discussion MSG (Monosodium Glutamate) a "Must have" ingredient in Chinese food
"Part of my maths degree included a course on relativity and cosmology and I've sort of kept up with it. There is a famous quotation in cosmology where data are often inconclusive - something like "These are my opinions on which I shall…"
Jul 18

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Where are you now?
Back in SZ about the 24th July - kids arrive on 9th August.
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Strategic Transport Planning Consultant
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About Me:
I spend half my life in Shenzhen and half in the UK. I have travelled the World for the last 35 years, living in Hong Kong, Singapore, Algeria, Bolivia and the USA as well as visiting about another 30 countries. Honestly, I often think that it would be good to act my age, but it is so difficult.

I don't have msn so don't bother to ask. I prefer that we talk on the public comment boards here so that I can remember what I've told you. At the moment I'm getting a lot of comments and, while I try to respond to all, I may miss one. So if you think that I'm ignoring you, I'm not so just resend it.

Outline of my Travels

For those who requested it. There were many other short stays in other countries, but these were places that I lived in a house or flat.

1946-1965 Home and school in Slough just outside London

1965-1968 Studied Pure Mathematics at University of Bristol – an interesting historic city in the west of England. A great time.

1968-1973 Worked in London and lived as various places, at home, in flats, with gfs – usually no money by mid-month.

1973-1976 Moved to HK for a big salary increase, so “rich” at last. Lived in the mid-levels with plenty of social life. My HK gf wouldn't marry me because it would mean leaving HK.

1976-1978 Moved to Algeria a mixture of Arab and French background. Interesting cities and splendid mountain and desert scenery. Good strong wine and excellent food. Met my wife – a long and romantic story, both in the normal sense and Jane's.

1978 Columbia, SC, USA – not very interesting.

1978-1980 La Paz, Bolivia, South America at 4000m elevation in the Andes Mountains. Everything about the place was great – the people, the parties, the incredible scenery. Go to Bolivia if you have the chance.

1981 HK again. Birth of my elder daughter, Kathleen, now living in South Africa.

1982-1983 Singapore – quite boring after HK. Birth of my elder son, Alex.

1984-1985 HK yet again. The two kids limited us, but we had a good time.

1985-1988 New Haven, Connecticut, USA. It was time to settle down, so we went to live in America. We made very few friends and were poor again.

1988-1999 HK once more. Rich again – my wife was in property and earning more than me. The peak of my career – if you talked about transport in HK you talked about me. Birth of my younger daughter, Shelly, and my younger son. Chris. Death of my elder son.

1999-present Bought our house in Worcester for a nice quiet life and I commute to various places – mostly SZ – for work and excitement.

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be like a peach in a relationship

Posted on July 14, 2014 at 11:49pm 9 Comments

Juicy with short soft fuzzy hair.

Nervous in Futian

Posted on July 2, 2014 at 9:30am 4 Comments

So what do they know that I don't know? We have three bright, shiny, new signs outside my building telling us what to do in the event or an air raid. Who is going to attack Weipeng Gardens? Vietnamese? Japanese? Taiwanese? An American aircraft carrier moored in HK harbour?

I think I should be told. Anyone out there with information please let me know. SOON.…


A Tale of Two Piccies

Posted on June 24, 2014 at 9:00am 10 Comments

I’ve just downloaded two photographs, each 8MB in size – totally unnecessary detail, as I’ll only look at them on my screen, so 1% of that would have been enough.  The 16MB got me thinking back about 45 years to my time on the old CDC3300 mainframe I used in those days.

Before about 1970 all user files, however small, were on magnetic tape reels – about 25cm across and 2400 feet long.  If your job required many files this meant the operators had to be mounting and dismounting tapes…


Wedding in Sydney - Part 2

Posted on June 11, 2014 at 9:49am 3 Comments

The reception was held in a small restaurant next to the chapel, and I helped look after the groom’s parents – after all they fed me every day.  The next picture shows some of the food, but the main point for me is that Lavender Bear – it’s a fake one bought in Shenzhen at about 5% of the cost of the real ones – I didn’t know there was any such thing as a real one when I bought it. People ate and drank the regulation champagne for an hour or so, then we had the cutting of the…


Wedding in Sydney - Part 1

Posted on June 11, 2014 at 9:44am 13 Comments

The chapel was on a cliff overlooking the sea, a really beautiful setting – you can see the exterior and interior in these first three pictures.…


Kenya Trip

Posted on May 21, 2014 at 10:30am 3 Comments

I’ve loaded a few of the photos for the safaris and the other places.  Look if you’re interested.

The trip took in October 2013 for four weeks.  The total cost for the two of us was about 60,000rmb.  You could knock a week off of that…


2048 Puzzle

Posted on May 20, 2014 at 9:57am 14 Comments

I’d seen people playing on the metro, but I’d no idea what it was, till Jane’s Michael posted a WeChat Moment.  Then I downloaded it and started to play.  I gradually worked out what to do and was improving, then I showed it to my flatmate.  She spent most of one night playing and got to 2048…


Reclaiming a City

Posted on May 5, 2014 at 10:46am 7 Comments

A trial run

On the Day This is Park Street in Bristol. It’s a fairly steep hill close to the city…


Ten Years After

Posted on March 28, 2014 at 9:47am 12 Comments

I moved into my flat in Weipeng Gardens in late March 2004.  We only took a six month lease so, despite the awful condition of the furniture, the landlord would not change it.  Ten years later, after many lease renewals, it’s still the same mess.  My place looks lived in.

I like the building – everything works.  It was built by the Nuclear Power Company and seems to have been designed to withstand a near miss. I like the neighbourhood – very Chinese. Great transport links - both the…


Where Do You Go To My Lovely?

Posted on February 24, 2014 at 11:30am 8 Comments

I go to a place in my head concerned with a part of my life that I'm truly happy with. As long as I have one of those places I can sleep easy and worry about the parts that are not working the next day when I'm fresh.

The disaster year was 1999. My daughter was in rehab recovering from a heroin addiction. My son died. My wife had a breakdown. My job was caught in the middle of a battle between the HK Secretariat and Transport Department.

Nowhere to go.



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At 9:52pm on July 14, 2014, Ziji said…

You would not like to  hold "crap', better go back for carpe diem :)

At 4:50pm on June 26, 2014, Moody Evil said…
Mike,ur blog brought me back to the old days, memory is something I like! Thank you :p
At 9:48am on June 21, 2014, VG said…
Urban design , urban planning , landscape architecture
At 9:18am on June 20, 2014, Asia Stuff Media said…

Hi Mike. Did you get my comment for that discussion? It wasn't the topic itself, but rather the comments being generated by the topic that made me think it's best to delete. Sorry.

At 11:26pm on June 12, 2014, Vivi said…

hi Mike,Guess you have a pleasant trip in Austrilia. will go to Germany next week. Thank you for you invitation. i would like to join you guys. but really sorry, i am not availabel this Friday. hope you guys have fun and looking forwards to join you guys next time: )"

At 9:41pm on June 5, 2014, Vivi said…

hi Mike, how are you doing?to reply what is my travelling plan before. finally have another long distance trip to Germany this month.for interest,i took  the test of National Tour Guide(English) before and pass the test too.hope can been to more places andknow more this worlds, learn diffirent cultures and history.share this beautiful life tour to all who have similar hobbies: )

At 1:11am on May 30, 2014, WeiWei said…

Hello Mike,

Sorry for the late reply. I wasn't away like you or occupied by anything, truth is lately I've been attacked by laziness...very seriously. I can't focus on anything. It's like my brain has turned into a wet sponge--I can't think, can't concentrate. And I find it really difficult for me to sit through a 2-hour game, thus I still haven't finished watching the FA game...and how pointless is it of me to ask you to recommend more games...

Oh well, I'll try to pull myself together and get back on track next month, nevertheless, World Cup is coming, I don't wanna miss the biggest event in sports!

Oh thanks for sharing the photo with me. I could see how happy you were, and how can Chris be so cute?

I have a jersey from season '12-'13, but I've never worn it. I'll try to wear it and send a photo to you as well.




At 1:53pm on May 26, 2014, Moody Evil said…

Hi Mike, your life experience is impressived, I never judge people, I admire them and get along with them. Well I get my own temper, but still acceptable, you will see if u know me better.

Distance is never a problem for me, we are still in the same city,as one of my friend said its all up to the motivation of seeing people, so no worries, we can meet for sure. Actually I met u once in pennyblack few years ago, u were too busy with your ladies ;p



At 1:55am on May 23, 2014, Killers_eric said…

that's like 30 years before i was even born but i bet it sounds great as it was back then and you need new flat-mate..

At 7:14pm on May 19, 2014, Butterfly0707 said…

correction: it's Rugby, not rudby,

At 7:12pm on May 19, 2014, Butterfly0707 said…

Hi Mike,

Thanks for your tips. But I am not heading to England, go to most of counties in Europe but not England.

Maybe you are right about the football, actually there is always something to see whatever they are in League one or two even lower.  Enjoy the atmosphere of rough men or relaxing like to stay in a pub to enjoy the live show... All are okay.

That's why I am very easy to like watching handball, also snooker. They might be not the main flow of sport in the world, especially handball, like you said. But it's enjoyable.

I now remember a guy E.K mentioned Rudby, it's interested that this is a name of city where people decided to divide football and rudby in the beginning of 19s. I watched a couple games in HK before, seems not bad, compared to american football. I perfer to watch rudby.


At 7:12pm on May 15, 2014, Butterfly0707 said…

Hi Mike,

I used to be a fan of Chelsea, but recently, I watched some german clubs, no matter it is league 1, or 2, even league 5..etc. Women's cup , I feel the gap from league 1 - 3 or 4, is not very big in Germany. Just planed to go to watch some matches in Europe. I don't put myself as fan of any club anymore.

Another sport is also very interesting to me, I like handball as well. Unfortunately there is no much show time for handball in China.

World cup is coming, the heat of world cup is spreading here, would be joyful to watch some of them.


At 12:11am on May 8, 2014, WeiWei said…

Hi Mike,

Yeah, I thought we'd go further...Torres even scored a goal! Note that he's our lucky star, usually we'd win if he scores, but unfortunately the magic doesn't work this time. But you are right, this isn't a season that we should expect too much. I'm sure we will do better next season!

I've only watched the first 30 mins of the FA Cup match so far. I found it very interesting though. The way they played is quite different from today's. There were many long balls, many crosses, and, many errors. I think that's the typical English football, right? I should watch more classic games from different periods. It's a very good way to study the development of football. Any recommendations?

My last three jobs were in Futian. Science Museum, Coco Park, and Exhibition and Convention Center to be specific. I went to Coco Park to have lunch with some friends last weekend. I saw some handsome white guy with grey hair also eating there. Was that you? :)

I hope we could make it to the final in Champions League next year. If not, we can still watch a PL game together on a Saturday night, what do you think?


At 10:36pm on May 6, 2014, Irene Fu said…

Hi Mike, Welcome to join us for a activity on May 11 to Bai Shui Zhai in Zeng Cheng.

At 2:46pm on April 27, 2014, WeiWei said…

Hi Mike, thanks for the add! Love your quote about getting old. So true!

At 5:17pm on April 18, 2014, Irene Fu said…

Hi Mike! We have another activity again on this sunday. hope you can join us.

At 12:08pm on April 9, 2014, Matt M said…

Hi Mike,

I changed my number. Kiwi Rob has my details. I am off the UK for a month next week. Will catch up when I get back.

Take care,


At 4:49pm on April 6, 2014, Jane said…

Hi Mike,

Thanks a lot for the kind message. Best wishes for you!


At 6:20am on April 3, 2014, Funny Life said…

Thanks for the kind message, Mike.

Have a good day.

At 12:03pm on March 21, 2014, Vivi said…

Hi Mike, sorry for the late reply. I don't have much plan now. Maybe will go some places nearby later. Yes. Xi'an is the ancient city with long history,lots of historical site there, really worth visiting. Fujian is not bad too, can walk around leisurely there. Don't forget to enjoy the food there. haha


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