A crowded bus groping
35-40 y/o man kept feeling my ass today on the crowded bus. At first, I thought it was nothing. Maybe just a bag brushing up against me. However, it happened repeatedly and my skirt was flipped up a bit too, so I looked down to make sure I wasn't being robbed, and sure enough, it was a hand that was pretending to brush up against me "by accident". So I said, "色狼" so at least people around me knew what was going on. My stop came up next, and his hand moved up onto the bar as if he's innocent, but I stared him down as I got off the bus.
I wonder what happened after. What's a girl to do in these situations?
I seem to be a sexual harassment magnet. I need to look like less of an easy target.
I wonder what happened after. What's a girl to do in these situations?
I seem to be a sexual harassment magnet. I need to look like less of an easy target.
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Comment by Mark Crawford on April 23, 2009 at 11:07am -
In Japanese, this kind of guy is called a "chikan."
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Comment by Andrew on April 12, 2009 at 6:37pm -
Wow...
Yeah i've seen guys like this on the bus before. They get on the bus, and have all the space they need but they hover over the beautiful girl. If they are sitting down they don't stand up for the girl, instead they watch her ass as she tries to get into the seat.
The guys that creep me out are the ones at the hair salons, acting like Zohan putting their crotch in your face and bumping it all over your arm and leg.
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Comment by Peng on March 2, 2009 at 5:24pm -
If it was a fantasy, the man would have been a lot better looking. He was a short, ugly, salaryman.
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Comment by Cynic The Troll on March 2, 2009 at 1:01pm -
Is this a fantasy or did it actually happen? Was the guy Chinese and how was he dressed, like a businessman or a construction worker? What was his age?
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Comment by Mike46 on February 26, 2009 at 1:37pm
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Hi Chris - we used to call it frotting, and I agree that as long as both people are having fun it's OK. Peng obviously was not - so it's not. I could tel you several more stories from that time, but this is a family site [for me - two daughters]. Of course it sometimes got quite messy.
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Comment by 老科 on February 25, 2009 at 10:02pm -
Hehe! That's frotteurism Mike61. It's obtaining sexual arousal and gratification by rubbing one's genitals against others in public places as long as it's mutual. I encountered it once in a crowd where I was a journalist following the Queen (of England) around and another time when I was on a protest march. I think it was a matter of being caught between a frock and a hard place. I was pleasantly surpised and both times the correspondents were not exactly in a hurry to move away and I was coming from behind so to speak. One (or two) of life's little ironies.
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Comment by 老科 on February 25, 2009 at 9:49pm
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Things happen differently in different contexts and maybe that guy on the bus was a chicken, not a wolf. I was reading today about a groping in my home country in which a reasonably high profile sport player was fined $12,500 - RMB 42000 - and lost his sporting career after pleading guilty to sexual violation. He grabbed the bottom of a woman he did not know at a social function. The judge described it as "humiliating and devastating ordeal" for the woman.
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In the late 60s I used to travel into London on the tube - boarded the Bakerloo Line at Finchley Road. It was very crowded so that you could lift your feet off the ground and not fall down, so I was frequently crushed against a girl. mostly they turned sideways, but not all. At first I was very embarrassed with my natural male reaction, but nobody seemed to mind - I got quite a few smiles. I still remember one girl who wouldn't let me leave the train at Regent's Park - she said "I've not finished yet".
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