Back Stabber (You don't know me)

Maybe its the government and all the other crooks
Maybe its the drugs, maybe its the parents
Maybe its the gangs, or the colors that were wearin'
Maybe its the high schools, maybe its the teachers
Tattoos, pipe bombs underneath the bleachers
Maybe its the music, maybe its the crack
Maybe its the bible, or could it be the lack

Come on people, now
Smile on your brother
Everybody get together
Try to love one another, right now...right now

Okay, maybe its the papers, maybe its the family
Maybe its the internet, radio, TV
Maybe its the president, maybe its the last one
Maybe its the one before that
Maybe its the athletes, maybe its the dads
Maybe its the sports fans, agents, fads
Maybe its the homeless, aliens, immigrants
Maybe its life, dont tell me that its imminent

Come on people now
Smile on your brother
Everybody get together
Try to love one another right now

Come on people now
Smile on your brother
Everybody get together
Try to love one another right now
You gotta love one another

Maybe its the fallout, maybe its the ozone
Maybe its the chemicals, the radiation, cell phones
Maybe its the magazines, maybe it the next page
Lotteries, fast food, bad news, road rage
Maybe it the unions, big business
Maybe its the KKK and the skinheads
Maybe its the daughters, maybe its the sons
Maybe its the brothers of the mothers or the guns

Come on people now
Smile on your brother
Everybody get together
Try to love one another right now

Come on people now
Smile on your brother
Everybody get together
Try to love one another right now

(You know, if we don’t talk about it
It ain’t gonna get better)

We gotta love one another 

(So, whadda say, lets talk)

Maybe its the parks, maybe its the sex
Maybe its the talk shows, maybe its a reflex
Maybe its the taxes, maybe its the system
Judges, lawyers, prisons
Maybe its the Catholics, maybe its the Protestants
Maybe its the addicts, and the hippies and communists
Maybe its a fashion, maybe its a trend
Maybe its the future... maybe its the end

Not even close.

Back stabber defined when a friend reaches out to warn or help as I could see the fray coming.

"I think we get your point, does the term beating a dead horse mean anything to you?

I can only say keep it real bro and don't let haters rial you up.

The war is endless and not winnable as for everyone you beat down 19 more will come to replace him.

In my opinion better to live and let live. Oh yeah I passed the hippy test with flying colors."

And then gets hit with nothing but arrogance and condescending bull shit

"Dude...you're talking to the wrong guy.

I don't understand people who come to me with the "we" assumption.Such audacity.

Who the hell am I? A stranger? Do you know how many SzStuffers talk to me? Huh, David?

Read the tags and check your motives. I have over 200 Blogs on "Live & Let Live" type stuff.

It's amazing how you always seem to appear on the ones having to do with rancor.Give me a break. I'm living for my family and blogging for 10million other reasons including my nephews. Talk to the man in the mirror.

You got the wrong guy. And peace means nothing to those who only mouth it. When you see something wrong in this world...have the courage to confront it. Don't wait and come to my blog and preach to me about Peace. I live it. And reading my 200 or so blogs was never mandatory.

 I hope we're crystal clear. Now go tell the right people what I said and stop the "we" nonsense. You know me. And remember everything about my personality."

But doesn't allow this to bother him and tries again.

"So how did you make out with the hippy test?
As I understand where you are coming from I figured I would start there. One at a time that is all i can do to keep the peace.
I do check your motives as well as check the motives of the haters as well.
As I said i am not looking for a war but trying to keep the peace that adds a more relaxing form feel, but like I said to another hypersensitive blogger here don't wear your emotions on your sleeve as they make easy targets.
And no where did Ii mention we so that is your assumption.

The war will never end if someone doesn't take the first step, by simply point at the problem again and again is not the first step to peace but the first line of offense."

In fact keeping the events of the past behind him and trying to make light of the situation. 

Then getting hit again

"

Man, you know how it is.

Cool brothers never take the hippy test. They just cut class altogether!

Incidentally, there's a Blog coming up on a different kind of test.  Stay tuned. You'd pass that one with flying colors too knowing you. So no worries there.

Now, on a more serious note, David:

1) If you look at the tags, you'd notice the word "unfazed". When I say "nothing fazes me"...I mean it.

2) My responses do & will hurt (those who can't handle the truth or are mentally weak), which is the number one reason it's never a good idea to mess with me. You're on my Blog because whether you realize it or not, psychologically, these Series (on Maturity & Civility Online) "riled" you up. For me, its like Niagra (Falls). I get right back atcha like Viagra:-) 

3) I hate reminding you of facts you don't know because you never witnessed it with your own eyes. But I left "that" company because I "riling" somebody up...Somebody who let negativity and insecurities get the better of him. Now, knowing you, this is something you're not at liberty to speak freely about, even in person...And why? Because I'd submit to you, it takes objectivity and rare courage to address it. So...I'll spare the pressure.

4) Nevertheless, lastly, my Ph.D. Supervisor once described me in a letter to the Research Committee thusly: "He's extremely prolific and his project is an ambitious". Now go figure. I can write 800 Blogs in one week if I didn't have a conscience. So when you see my Blogs, just remember. That's just TT being TT. Again, it ain't all about ya. Nor is it about the haters whose schemes frankly, it takes meticulousness to keep up with.

I'm a man of ideas. And Blogging is one way my ideas ooze out.

Let the man or woman with good motives, mind their business rather than assume I created any particular Blog for them.

Take it easy & keep it funky."

When the fact are it was the arrogance that made it so he had to leave the company, not knowing his own place and getting put in it by management. But still I tried to turn the cheekiness away and tried to help a friend

"Well you got one part wrong i am not riled up, but more or less bored with the mini wars I see going on here because of things that one person or another has said on these forms, it is not about you or about me it is about peace at it finest.

As you know communication is my major, no I don't have anything like a PHD thankfully, and i understand that biases and prejudices are a major noise in communication breakdown, I have read thing that are meant one way and taken another, because of these biases or prejudices, boiling down to one person saying something that wasn't expected but the another person hearing the expected.

This happens in all forms of communication and everyone hears things different because of these noises, and the arguments continue, hence you get to equally intelligent people arguing about the same thing in different language.

My point here is sometime we and I am using that term now need to step back and look at our self and our own biases before we can argue about others. Again not pointing at you but at the blogging community as a whole." 

And then as you all can see he come at me again with more condescending remarks and arrogance. 

"

A word to the wise, David...is enough. We're going round in circles here, And as a mature time-conscious man, I hate repeating myself. I'm also NOT a go-betweener. There're blogs about that too. If you're wrong, you're wrong. Doesn't matter if you're my beer buddy, mother, or mentor. That takes courage. Learn it. You're having a dialogue with me that you could have substituted for your 10,000 sex Discussions. And I say that with love.

I have better things to do. And 4 time zones keep me awake while most of these haters around here sleep.

It's simple: Watch what people do and you'll know what they're made of. I know what I post. I know how many I help. Because they always thank me secretly.

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I have read thing that are meant one way and taken another, because of these biases or prejudices, boiling down to one person saying something that wasn't expected but the another person hearing the expected.

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1) That's NOT my problem.

To give truth to him who loves it not is to only give him more multiplied reasons for misinterpretation.

—

GEORGE MACDONALD

2) A lot of negative Discussion topics and Blogs are started because of me. Did you know that? Do I ever complain? No. Why? Because I have better things to do. And catering to ineducable cocky and negative full-time trolls ain't one of them. 

3) You missed this Blog

Deal with my 227 Blogs, skip 'em all, or keep talking about sex in the Forums.

But I will NEVER cease to speak the truth. Copy that?

You're whining because you're having a hard time dealing with maturity and reality. Forget my achievements. I never gloated about them. And frankly, you don't know me.  

I've always been this way. Nothing new here. I expose stupidity, negativity, jerks, bad apples, and people who sow negative energy in otherwise harmonious environments by manipulating the less intelligent. All they have to do, is bring their foolishness to me. And that's what you're witnessing.  

Cowardice is not my thing. We have big problems in America and even my European and Chinese friends. So, I pity the narcissistic fool (and his cohorts) who makes the mistake of thinking I exist for them. Or log on to a social network site so they can tell me how to live. It was tried with Miao Miao...and that's fine. I have better things to do most of the time anyway, so I don't care what she was/is up to. But as I said before in a different blog (several blogs in fact): Always know your target before attacking."

The whole time bragging about his almighty achievements and his prolific blogging skills and then saying I never brag.

And when I saw him getting smacked down again I tried to help him if not being straight up about it but trying to make him understand how other see him and I get called a back stabber.

Then  he brings up the name of someone I know and respect like he is in the room or something, 

Man all I can say is you got problems, there is something wrong with your big head. 

Maybe it is time that you got it out of your ass. 

And after all this I will still say I am big enough to call you my friend, as I do understand where your are from and now David Lee, stop this silly game and go back and play with your 15 year old nephew. Who obviously has more on the ball then you do. Remember you are not the only victim, but most have stopped acting like one. 

Disclaimer. I have nothing but respect for everyone on this site and as long as I get that respect back I will give it to you.

Peace out