Friend of my Dearest sister came over to Shenzhen and visited us once, very nice of her, she brought me 2 books. I guess I never really did try to hide my “break-up emotion”…the 2 book she brought was like self help type of book. One is too much into the Jesus Love you kind, and I’m just not ready for Jesus yet. So….
But the other actually pretty fun to read even though still mentions Christian / Jesus here and there but anyway….here just something like to share with those who might have hard times going though a break-up :)
I reach to the part talk about the 4 periods after you broke up:
The Explosion Period – From break off the relationship – Trance and emptiness
Symptoms: tears stream down, crying, out of control~
The Dumfound Period – From Trance and emptiness – Forgiveness
Symptoms: trance, disappointed, confusion, weakness, mood swings~
The Release Period – From Forgiveness – Not bothers or distracted by the break up
Symptoms: tears and quietness (peace)
The Reconstruction Period – From not being bothers or distracted by the break up – Next relationship
Symptoms: Look forward and be wiser
No one can tell you how long this 4 periods going to take. Eventhough I’m still on the process, but I wasn’t doing too bad. I choose to be true to myself, take the times to slowly heal. I know this is the only way I can move on and whoever I might meet next in my journey, he wont be my rebound victim.
The process SUCKS but I’m PROUD!!! :D