Break-up 4 Steps
Friend of my Dearest sister came over to Shenzhen and visited us once, very nice of her, she brought me 2 books. I guess I never really did try to hide my “break-up emotion”…the 2 book she brought was like self help type of book. One is too much into the Jesus Love you kind, and I’m just not ready for Jesus yet. So….
But the other actually pretty fun to read even though still mentions Christian / Jesus here and there but anyway….here just something like to share with those who might have hard times going though a break-up :)
I reach to the part talk about the 4 periods after you broke up:
The Explosion Period – From break off the relationship – Trance and emptiness
Symptoms: tears stream down, crying, out of control~
The Dumfound Period – From Trance and emptiness – Forgiveness
Symptoms: trance, disappointed, confusion, weakness, mood swings~
The Release Period – From Forgiveness – Not bothers or distracted by the break up
Symptoms: tears and quietness (peace)
The Reconstruction Period – From not being bothers or distracted by the break up – Next relationship
Symptoms: Look forward and be wiser
No one can tell you how long this 4 periods going to take. Eventhough I’m still on the process, but I wasn’t doing too bad. I choose to be true to myself, take the times to slowly heal. I know this is the only way I can move on and whoever I might meet next in my journey, he wont be my rebound victim.
The process SUCKS but I’m PROUD!!! :D
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Comment by Katherine on June 17, 2012 at 2:07pm
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Thank you guys for all your comments and support in many different ways :D
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Comment by Praveen kumar on June 17, 2012 at 12:10am -
relationships are like flowing water , it is clean only till it flows, the moments you start holding it , it will stagnate.
dont hold it let it flow, for howsever hard you try it will fell through like sand flows out of hand, just look at the positive part of it , try doing things that you couldnt do before for some or the other reason. once you start doing things which make you feel different you can feel the release yourself.
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Comment by Profanipenguin on June 16, 2012 at 5:34pm -
I implore you to invite Christ into your heart so he can solve your relationship issues. The Lord works in mysterious ways indeed when he asks a 33 year old frustrated-homosexual-virgin-corpse for over 2,000 years, to sort out your break ups.
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Comment by Drunken beauty on June 13, 2012 at 5:18pm -
I didn't have any break up steps to follow at all :-D
I think it all depends on what you had with that person while you were in a relationship.
Sometimes you went through a breakup in a slow painful way.
Sometimes you got over it sooner the better then get back into the game again!
Really over a relationship is another relationship. :-D (Don't know if that's bullshit or what, but sometimes, it works that way)
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Thank you guys~ I'll try to be as strong as the 'war horse' and using my "energy" to create more Artwork hope it sells and make everyone especially my dearest sister proud :D
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Comment by TF on June 12, 2012 at 7:50pm
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3rd period, i think. can be very quiet with tears sometimes. and that quietness scares most. along with tears and quietness, i have strangness that can frighten most away.
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Comment by GrayDude ™ on June 12, 2012 at 7:31pm -
From my experience:
Step 1: Hate will set you Free.
Step 2: Hate more and add curse in the mix will, be your light at the end of the tunnel.
Step 3: There is no such thing as friendship after hate.
Step 4: Friendship and inner-crap-peace only happens in the movie.
Step 5: You'll survive because you'll be dead tired of everything.
Step 6: Sarcasm will follow.
Then you'll be an Angst Artist that sell paintings for hundred of thousands...
Please don't forget us :)
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Comment by GrandPa on June 12, 2012 at 6:40pm -
Honey...you are a war horse! And actually I do mean that in a good way!
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haha...I remember that Grandpa, and in fact I'm quite proud of myself....I can be very powerful...ohohoh~
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Comment by GrandPa on June 12, 2012 at 6:23pm
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...hey, what happened to this step:
Make GrandPa Drink Stage...you remember that one, the one when you drove GrandPa to drink after he had been sober for three weeks. God Damn...I deserve a medal for what I have been through! :-)
:Love you sweetheart!
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