There seems to be more and more public incidents of the slow decay in the ability of the Chinese to repress their frustrations. For decades (and post Mao) they have been told to suppress their emotions more, and over the last few decades 'face' has replaced outburst. But slowly we are seeing this slip, as they are beginning to lose it in public more in recent years than they have in the last 70 years. So have the Chinese changed fundamentally in recent years? No, but their lives have - radically.
While they have always been emotional, many of these things occur previously behind closed doors. All we are seeing is them spilling over into public life. The tensions are becoming great indeed in many areas of their lives, to the point where we are, and will see more public outbursts of frustrations and rage they simply cannot keep bottled up anymore. It's as simple as that.
The latest incident I heard about was in GZ when two Chinese gentleman after an argument over a seat on the metro ended up fighting. Culminating in either a bitten through, or off ear (a bit hazy that part) Crazy right? An empty seat? What is that worth fighting about? It's not. In itself it's nothing. It's simply what we call 'the last straw' or 'breaking point' if you will. And everybody has one.
Longer and more demanding working practices. The 'more' factor. The more you give, the more they expect. Family life, keeping up appearances, marriage, babies, house, car - pressure, pressure, pressure. Getting ahead. Good grades at school. Who has the latest gadgets, and who has the best car. Who is tall, short, thin, fat, ugly, beautiful, big nose, flat nose, dark skin, white skin - any physicality whatsoever really. (being a vastly superficial society these are enormous pressures)
The great and ever increasing divide between those who have and those who want, and all the envy that ensues. The ever swelling ranks in the streets, with little, or no matching infrastructure to keep pace with it. Not to mention the poorly made already available infrastructure crumbling under the strain already. Walking from A to B in China can be an obstacle course of pot holes and people. It's just all so demanding. And without the skills to cope, this is the result.
Through it's recent booming economy China has paid no attention whatsoever to the mounting social frustrations/grievance/stress/and multitudes of little things that are steadily reaching simmering point. Note simmering, not boiling. While that will surely come as there are substantial cracks already apparent in Chinese society - everywhere!
The 17 year old boy who after an argument with his girlfriend kills two of her relatives in her home, and then six others randomly out on the street, injuring more along the way. Why? Is he a bad kid? Bad seed? Insane? No, of course not. He is just another deeply confused/troubled/ignored young man in China who just snapped. I could list many incidents in the last two years, both shocking and tragic. But not however in any way surprising given the culture.
Suicide, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Stress, drinking, gambling, envy. These things are through the roof now. The Chinese are pissed off. And unlike before, they are becoming increasingly unable to keep a lid on it. And in actual fact I am surprised they kept the cork in as long as they have.
I know there are are those who do not care, suffer silently, or cry themselves to sleep at night respectively. But regardless of whatever category you fall into nothing changes. Understanding what is happening in China is a bit like wanting to know what the weather is like. You simply look out the window, or open your door and have a look. It's all there for anyone to see.
Now after decades of 'desperately' trying to get ahead 'at any cost' preceded by a century of starvation it has finally taken it's toll, and they have lost their way. You still however hear them endlessly banging the nationalistic 5000 year history pride drum. But could you honestly say any of that still applies today? They could (and do) but could a sane person I mean?
Just look at the recent National day/Spring Festival break. An estimated 800 million tried to march it's way out of China strapped to those fine upstanding corruption officers (among others) And I am sure as they waited sweating in line at various airports their hearts were filled with their 'pride' for China. The thinking was that they left it until the holiday to lose themselves in the crowds, and had a week before anyone noticed they had done a runner. One official alone was caught with about £600.000 (6 million rmb) on his person trying to board a flight to the UK.
So what can China do about this growing unrest? Build more prisons? Counselling? Educating? Stress therapy? Self help groups? Step up the executions? Give Oprah a call? We could have a Jerry Springer type slug-fest where they come on national TV and beat the hell out of each other in front of cheering crowds? (Not really changed that much since Roman times then)
No, none of these (or anything else) will we see any time soon until we reach critical mass, or god forbid - meltdown.
The Chinese used to be (and while still are in part are, and should/could very well be so again, easily - en-masse) a truly great race of people. Noble, honourable, wise. What happened? Basically, the modern world happened.
While marching briskly ahead economically, sociologically and psychologically they are a desert of despair & confusion. Left behind in many ways by an ever increasingly rushing by world lacking guidance and direction. No, I am not getting out the moral compass again, just saying, It's all getting worse. Of course things always get worse before they get better, but so much of this is totally unnecessary and avoidable. Really.
I know these feelings all to well, and so do you. We all do. It's not that we don't have them, we just know how to manage them or limit the damage they could do by venting harmlessly mostly, or going to the gym, or something.
Here they are left unchecked, misunderstood, ignored, brooding and boiling slowly to dangerous levels.
They lack that experience, foresight or temperance. The catalyst of consequence if you will, that can take any of us from reason to rage in what can all too often be a mere heartbeat. But once the deed is done, it can never be undone. While perhaps not more in control than the Chinese we are often more aware, which is far more important. (unless beer or women are involved then we get REALLY stupid)
But as T.I.C we all know that nothing bad ever happens her, right? Well I hate to break it to you guys but it's already happening all around China. As usual they will simply ignore it, and tragedy after senseless tragedy condemn the individual perpetrators, while ignoring the system/culture that creates the environments for it to thrive. Gee, they are just so smart - they say. I say - it's just wishful thinking.
China Crisis ~ Wishful Thinking ~ Geddit? ; )
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They are well aware Chom and as you say preoccupied with their own survival and families. It is too much for so many to just try to support their own without worrying about others? With the new government transfer this coming November the onus for the system is on them. But for the simple, every day considerations these we are all responsible for, and not just to our families.
Comment by Chom on October 23, 2012 at 6:47pm Actually I think the problem is almost the opposite of what Mars Lover has observed. I think the problem is Chinese society is TOO centered around the family, to the point that people don't care about the wider society or improving it. Most Chinese are struggling to support their families and nothing more. This will not change, but maybe its that the wider problems is society are affecting more and more people directly, and that's why there are more and more public outbursts.
I agree with you that "As usual they will simply ignore it, and tragedy after senseless tragedy condemn the individual perpetrators, while ignoring the system/culture that creates the environments for it to thrive." however I would say most normal Chinese , even if ignoring it in public know all too well about the problems, but are just worried about their families. Or if they really wanted to do something feel helpless.
The majority in reality may like what you said. Hope we will see changes in the future. :-)
I have not heard that one before, but China has many 'sayings' but very little 'doings' ; )
I never mind if someone is rich, but I would question the manner they became so.
That's a Chinese saying that "君子爱财,取之有道". :-)
Yeah, we have them here too Robert and a BJ and a beer is a great way to start the day - just ask GrandPa ; )
Everyone needs to make money and in itself there is nothing wrong with that Mars Lover. I hear the 'i'm a rich guy' loud conversations in China all the time. When these comments are directed at me I always just say 'good for you' but ask 'how' they made their money. I never mind if someone is rich, but I would question the manner they became so. And the whole 'showing off' about it is beyond pathetic.
We are way beyond the history of China rising from the ashes of poverty though. If you see it clearly 'to get rich is glorious' as they say has replaced any REAL value they ever once had. Unless there is a $ sign attached they have confused ideas about true value in, or of life or people above what they look like and what they have.
I am not sure if the family ties could have saved any of the poor souls killed by the boy. I just know it was another needless tragedy in an ever increasingly simmering sea of despair they feel more and more, with a total lack of anyone to turn to or guidance other than get rich, stay thin - yada-yada, the usual, we all know this song well enough by now. I do know one of the girls who works for me broke up with her bf because her Aunt (The richest in her family) did not like that he was short (no kidding) recently graduated, and had little prospects to raise to 'her' standards of 'manhood' and piled on the pressure until she finally gave in and broke up with him.
With age should come wisdom, you are right. In China more age often it just comes with more greed/tunnel vision 'opinions' face and control. There is a whole generation of Chinese out there who are being manipulated and moulded into good little obedient money machine drones.
Education and evolution is the way to go. Education could take a generation. Evolution would probably take several. But right again, there is always hope - maybe one day.
Comment by Robert on October 22, 2012 at 9:55pm Stress Management?
A friend of mine who works in Japan says there are special bars that you go to for that. Salarymen go to bars in the morning where they get a BJ and a beer before they go to work.
Its a good thing that there is no easy access to guns here.
Amen to that. I still like my 'slugfest' idea but looking forward to the movie Kev ; )
I think there is a lot of pent up rage in Chinese society on many levels.
Agreed Mr Filthy Lucre and without proper stress management there will be an ever increasing amount of these kinds of incidents.
stefan ∞ always great to get your comments, danke sehr mein herr! (is that right? My German is well out of practice ; ))
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