The LOVE Series: Toxic Relationships
If you find yourself loving someone who is no good for you, do a little self-examination.
If you find that your relationship is toxic, accept it for what it is:...
...attraction, not love.
People in toxic relationships are looking for a partner in crime;...
...someone to join them in their path to destruction.
Maybe, for example, you find someone who has some of the same self-esteem issues as you do...
...or emotional challenges as you.
Together you each have someone to share your misery with, a mate to complain to and complain about.
These are relationships based on a toxic attraction and they should not be confused with love relationships of any kind.
Love is a very different process...
...and has nothing to do with finding a partner to share your unhealthy patterns.
Real love is able to transcend those patterns.
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Comment by Drunken beauty on August 16, 2012 at 5:49pm -
I simply don't know why the fuck people get married, But I do know I won't date a guy who won't marry me.
:-p
After all, I am a woman, my opinions are quite complex.
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Comment by Isabelle on August 16, 2012 at 1:53pm -
I am LOVE, I am a figment of your imagination.
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Comment by GrayDude ™ on August 16, 2012 at 1:07pm -
Love, a question of infinite possibilities with a twist of irony. We all wanted to be loved, to be heard, and be understood. Eventually as we grow older Love becomes a figment of imagination but we then recognize its flows, we can't receive what we can't give.
When there is bliss there is suffering.
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Comment by Isabelle on August 16, 2012 at 11:31am
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Let the JUICES flow... I mean Juses...
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Comment by GrandPa on August 16, 2012 at 10:27am -
Every day I thank Juses that I am a eunuch, and this just reinforces that opinion!! :-)
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Comment by David - 戴維在中國 on August 15, 2012 at 11:06pm -
Means we all die anyway Chris ; )
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Comment by Isabelle on August 15, 2012 at 5:25pm
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Told ya, LOVE never fails. It's always a hit.
Will get back to y'all later for more groovin' and lovin'. Need to go eat my vermicelli at the Viet's Kitchen for now.
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Comment by Half moon on August 15, 2012 at 5:16pm -
Usually a little Toxic is tasty and get you addicted, but too much would weaken you and kill you slowly or quickly.
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Comment by Wandering Cat on August 15, 2012 at 5:12pm
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I really want to know if there is way to make life simpler and easier. Or everyone does enjoy complicated thing otherwise it can not prove they are unique and brilliant.
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@Kev, you remind me don't judge a book by its cover again.
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