Why my memory's getting so weird recently?
Every time when i stood on the road in HuaQiangBei, i saw a lot of kids ,some were happy, some were crying . let me ignore the happy ones , God knows how much i like kids . i can't see kids crying in front of me.i know kids always cry ...it's normal.. but that day , i saw a kid cried behind her mum , the little girl was around 3 year-old. she's trying to keep up with her mum ,and stretched her hand to reach her mum's hand ,but the mother seemed very angry ,walked fast ,and sometimes she looked back , but just wouldn't let her girl touch her hand... i looked the little gril cried very sad , i had a very big intention to stop the mother and give the girl a warm hug , but i just couldn't move ,because i was on duty....
still now , i do remember the kid's face ,very beautiful ,but so sad ...i feel sorry that i didn 't try to do anything ..:-(
i wish more and more parents can realise that kid is the most precious gift from god...
recently , i remind so many old things and old people. i don't know why ,i wish i can figure out soon....
God bless the people who are already or gonna be parents!
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Comment by Christina on October 23, 2012 at 11:49am
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Mars lover:
oh ,i forgot to explain this : you know how many couples can't have baby by their own , even test-tube baby doesn't help.so i believe kids is the most precious gift from god....ok ,just in this way...
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Wang:
your son will respect you as a good mum....
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Mars lover:
I'm impressed that you made a standard sample of perspective taking.
wish your children would feel that how much you want to hold their hands and let them get your love .....
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Comment by Mars Lover on October 23, 2012 at 5:05am -
You are wrong in one aspect of this article Christina,
Kids are not the most precious gift from GOD,
Kids are the most precious gift from US, the two people that make the kids.
That is more correct.
I like kids too,
I have 5 of them. four of them in USA from 2 marriages and 1 in China that is my girlfriends child from her first marriage. I will raise her child with her as if he is my own. He is 12 years of age now and he is very good kid. He does not respect his mother sometimes so I am teaching him the importance of this. I think he is regular child. Not listen sometimes, want to be the center of attention other times. She, my GF has done a good job of raising this child but she does not have patience with him sometimes and just gives up when he does not listen to her. I have stepped in and become the "man" figure. He needs one very much.
I hope to teach him many things to help him with his future.
I see many children on the streets similar to how you described, crying and looking for mother's help holding out their hand, but the mother is walking faster and faster from the child. I am not sure if this is a way for them to teach the child something good or not. Maybe it is just that they are tired too, but the child always needs to know love. Nothing can take the place of love in a child's eyes. If only the mother would stop for a moment and think of this.
When the mother is very very old and the child has no time for her, what will she think of this ? Will she then think of the fact that it would be so good to have her child just come and hold her hand then ? Will her heart feel cold and empty as the child's does on the street running to catch the mothers hand ? I think then the old woman will have wished that she slowed enough back then to let the child catch up and hold her loving hand in the street. Don't you agree ?
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