To the girls. If you are interested in a guy, would you..

ask him his contact info/number? Or would you rather wait for him to ask? And why?

Permalink Reply by Calvin on February 16, 2008 at 12:37am: They go for Caucasian coz they have illusions on them. They think they're all educated, gentleman, rich....etc. Sigh, face the reality girls....

Oh maybe most importantly, they can get them out of China......Shxx.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by maf on March 28, 2008 at 12:10am: yeah...that's too bad. I've never asked for a guy's number before...i used to believe it should always be the guy who should do the asking...until recently i met this guy, and he seemed to be interested in me but I guess he was just too shy to ask me for my number...or msn...and now when I think back I could have just stepped up and asked for his number or msn coz I was very much interested in him too. Oh well...as that Greg guy would put it...maybe he was just not that into me.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Aleen on January 25, 2008 at 5:09pm: if i am interested in a guy,i won't ask him his contact number. i never do that.....i don't know why. even i am gonna lose him.
i don't have his number,that means we don't quite konw each other....i will see, if he is not a good guy,even he asks me my number,i won't give him. because i am not interested in him any more.......
silly...... :P :P; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kitty on January 25, 2008 at 7:04pm: You are Chippy, girls don't ask your number.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Vivian on January 25, 2008 at 8:52pm: i guess i'll go ahead & try to make a conversation with him :-); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by lewis on January 31, 2008 at 2:13pm: It is true that many Chinese girls are shy ,and don`t ask guys the contact number directly. MAYBE it is the Chinese tradition .in Chinese history,girls are at home and wait for her husband.even she never see the guy until the marriage-day. BUT it is a few different today.because the society are changing..........; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Victoria on February 7, 2008 at 9:27pm: Just ask him for his number... if he likes you, then he'll give it to you; if he doesn't, then he won't! I prefer to take the man's phone number and not give mine. in a club situation anyway. This is for 2 reasons: he could be crazy! And secondly, I don't have to play 'the will he call?/why hasn't he called? game'. The ball is then in my proverbial court.

I would never ask a man for his number if I knew I was going to be rejected. You know if someone likes you or not. Contrary to Peter's 'sense of manliness being hurt' generally, guys are flattered to have someone take the initiative. (this includes Caucasian and Chinese men). You can be hunted in different ways, but in order to become friends, I think you should ask. He can 'hunt' you after you have become friends!

Just go for it. Life is not a dress rehersal! :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Sarsi on March 28, 2008 at 4:00pm: Finally, out of all these comments, victoria's the one that made most sense. i mean, its just a number. and if the scenario's in the club you'd probably be hammered anyways.
READ: Liquor = Courage.

oh and i don't ask for their numbers, i ask if they want mine. lol kidding =) xxx; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Lizia on March 20, 2008 at 12:13pm: For me I think i will wait for him to asking me, coz I just dont like being so agresive.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Salsa_Quee on March 21, 2008 at 2:52am: if i met a guy who was my stly````i will wait for him first````and if he also not ask my number,i will get more drink and ask him```hahah```````chance will not always wati u....is that right?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by L. valentine on March 25, 2008 at 6:10am: Depends on the situation, I think. Back in the day we would approach them, toast them, talk to them, dance with them, make out with them, and then when the two of you are about to part ways, do the number exchange and give them a fake number. Maybe a real number if you thought there was a real connection. But my reasoning back then was that although I had only wanted a companion and make-out buddy for the evening, that guy probably expected a little something more. Also, I have drunk goggles something fierce.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by cathy on March 25, 2008 at 3:53pm: I thought that i would never ask him first but when i first fell in love with a person, i did say it. I guess this is simply bcz my personality. To be frank, we never became lover, and on some degree, i did get hurt. But i don't regret for that. I tried my best to grasp the opportunity as i thought he was the one. I am not that confident or rather say not sure that i will ask that question again next time, but i will simply follow my heart, instead of my mind.; ▶ Reply to This